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25+ years working professionally with families
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Author of Be A Super Dad
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Supported hundreds of dads
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Grounded in proven child psychology
You do not want to parent on autopilot.
Most dads want to be patient and present. But when you are exhausted, you and your partner are constantly bickering, and your child is pushing every single button you have, it is incredibly easy to snap.
If you are lying awake at 2 AM searching for "how to stop shouting at my kids" or "why am I so angry", you are not alone. You catch yourself yelling, and then the heavy guilt sets in. You feel like a bad dad.
The hardest part is the fallout. It is watching your child cry, hearing them say they hate you, or watching them bypass you because they only want a cuddle from mum. It hurts, and it creates a massive gap between you and the family you love.
You do not have to figure this out alone. That is exactly why fathers look for practical
I am a Reflective Dad Coach who helps you see things differently.
I am Gareth. I am a dad of two, and I have spent over 25 years working professionally with children and families. I know exactly what it is like to wonder if you are getting this right. Read my full story here.
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My job as your dad coach is to help you see yourself and your child through a different lens. I do not offer textbook lectures. I give you the practical tools to manage your calm, even in the middle of a meltdown.
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Part of my background involves working with families who are at breaking point. I am a trained Respect and NVR facilitator. In plain English, that means I specialise in helping men understand exactly how their reactions impact their partner and their kids, without any judgement.
How reflective dad coaching works
Step 1: Book a free call.
We will have a completely normal, no-pressure chat about what is happening at home and where you feel stuck.
Step 3: Change the atmosphere.
You will learn how to settle your kids, stop the endless arguments with your partner, and rebuild the connection.
Why Dads Trust Be A Super Dad
- Real Results From Real Families.
I honestly can’t thank Gareth enough. His knowledge, experience, and genuinely supportive, non-judgemental approach created such a safe space for both me and my partner to open up, be honest, and allow ourselves to be vulnerable.
Jemma V
Thank you so much Gareth! You are so knowledgeable and a genuinely nice bloke!
I am already seeing a difference in my day to day parenting! It's been a blast and I'm so glad our paths crossed!
Luke E
Gareth is the perfect combination of theory and practice.
His knowledge, availability and voluntarism are unmatched and I am greatfull for the continuous support received via the quick diagnostic of the situation and prompt action plan proposed.
Gastao B
What Dads Come to Me For
Staying Calm when stress is high
Support to notice triggers, slow reactions, and respond in a way that matches your values.
Building Stronger relationships with your kids
​Practical and reflective support to help you connect, repair, and show up consistently.
Feeling more confident as a dad
Clearer thinking, better habits, and support that helps you trust yourself more in fatherhood.
Navigating pressure in family life
Support with the strain that can come with parenting, relationships, routines, and responsibility.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this only for dads who are struggling?
No. Coaching is for dads who care and want to be intentional. Some dads come because things feel difficult. Others come because they want to grow before things get harder.
Do you work with dads online?
Yes. Be A Super Dad offers online dad coaching, so dads can get support from anywhere.
What happens on a free Dad-To-Dad Call?
We talk about what’s going on, what you want to change, and what support might help. It’s relaxed, practical, and there’s no pressure.
Do I need to commit to a package?
No. You can start with a free call and decide what feels right for you.
When do the coaching sessions take place?
I know dads are busy juggling work and family life. I offer flexible session times, including options that fit around your schedule. We can figure out the best time during our free introductory call.
How much does coaching cost?
The initial 30-minute Dad-To-Dad call is completely free with zero pressure. If we decide coaching is the right fit, my 1:1 packages are straightforward and transparent. You can view all the details on the Coaching Plans page.